.But what Astrid doesn't understand however is a truth that both Ortega and also O'Hara-- that possesses two kids-- can attest to: The reality that your partnership with your moms and dads changes and also grows as you both get older, and with any luck right. "Your world centers around [your youngsters] when they are actually children [and] it's so much work however wonderful," O'Hara mentions. "Eventually, you really miss out on that, given that after that you can not get all of them to accomplish just about anything you want all of them to do, given that they start developing their very own minds, their personal viewpoints." And also at some point, you find yourself in the location O'Hara, whose sons reside in their 20s and also 30s, locates herself now, capable to gain from her little ones. "They are actually just such great youthful men," she mentions. "I am actually certainly not their pal, yet I really love having conversations with them as well as being familiar with just how they consider lifestyle.".